I really don't know.
Apr. 11th, 2008 05:27 pmOk so I am dating, and that is all nice and all, I had a date on tuesday that was so fabulous that I was all agog and wow'd about it. His texts started to get serious so I ended up asking the how often do we see each other, what are you comfy with. By the end of a strained IM convo (He has bad cell phone reception) he was we'll do the set in appointment dates now and then and we'll do informal nearly last min get togethers the rest of the time.
I was cool with this.
Then I mentioned maybe at some nebulous point meeting my friends, he was up for that even said he wanted to meet my cat. Then this morning said he was happy that we'd had the chat and that infrequent meeting was notthe way to carry a relationship. Then I got a text that in effect said when he met me he THOUGHT he wanted a long term relationship, but wasn't so sure . Two hours later he decides that he regrets sending the text and wants a second chance, even though in his eyes he doesn't deserve it. Then its lets back off on the intense texts and only talk in the planning of a date.
I by that timme had set up the possibility of seeing someone else because I though he wanted out of anything, but now he does and he wants off the bat exclusivity and to be honest I am loathe to give that to him, purely because of the blows hot and blows cold issue. My confidence is broken in the potential of the relationship. I dunno what is going on.