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JoeFlanigan tweeted a heartfelt letter to fans today in regards to a family friend Sarah Geary and asked for fans to help. Joe's words speak for themselves and I hope that we fans as a group can help this family in their terrible time of need.

Letter from Joe
I would like to introduce everyone to my close friend Sarah Geary. Earlier this year she was diagnosed with ALS, also known as Lou Gehrigs disease. She has been unfortunately declining ever since. Despite the effects of this cruel disease, she manages to continually enrich the lives of those around her in the most amazing ways. My wife Katherine and I have been profoundly effected by her iron will, piercing intellect and abominable charm. It seems like health and spirit have an inverse relationship with Sarah. Her husband Tim has been overwhelmed with the practical and emotional demands of this cries, all the while attending to a demanding full time job.
At the end of the day, however, the outcome is certain. Sarah will slowly and sometimes painfully diminish toward death. The medical demands and costs are staggering and, in some ways, constitute a second tragedy for the family. They have been living in the guest house of some very generous friends, which gives them proximity to the doctors. They have also been spending many of their weekends with my family in Malibu, where Sarah, Tim and the kids feel genuinely relaxed and welcome in their 'adopted home'. Recently Sarah has lost her speech and we now have to carry her in and out of the house. And while she has been robbed of so much of the communication we all take for granted, she manages to almost vibrate silently with affection for everyone and everything around her.
I feel remarkably blessed in my career. One thing I feel so proud of is the special relationship that we, actors of The Stargate franchises, have with our fans. If there ever was a chip I could cash in on for my success, this would be it. My uncharacteristic seriousness should only underscore the sobering obligation I feel toward Sarah.
I'm asking all of us to rally for Sarah Geary and her family. We can make her last days as comfortable as possible and help Tim and the kids transition to the next chapter of their lives. Unlike donations to a large organization where it is difficult to measure the impact of your contribution, your money will have a direct and immediate impact on her well-being from breathing apparatus' to night nurses. Tim and I will be keep everyone in touch by informing them of the process.
David Hewlett and I are auctioning off a lunch together in Los Angeles. David will be forced to eat lemons and laugh at my same joke that I will continually repeat throughout the meal. Additionally, and perhaps more shockingly, I am auctioning off my trusty skateboard that has reliably transported me around the studio-lot for many years and has appeared in scenes through out the Stargate Atlantis series. Yes, folks, I brought my skateboard to space. Please visit: http://www.charitybuzz.com/auctions/joeflanigan
So please, join me and my friends in our support of Sara Geary. Look forward to seeing everyone soon.


Joe has further said that for those that can't bid on the auction, donations can be made via this link: www.friendsofsarahgeary.com

I post this cause I can not afford jack at the moment, but hope that my friends list and any other meandering soul may be able to help by donating or bidding. I would be grateful for any and all help to go towards this cause, even if I do not know the people involved. One person's suffering, is everyone's suffering IMHO, and to ease it for one, is to ease it for all.

Much love and many thank you's 

Angela x
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 First off I have changed the Journal design - Yay! It's apparently pink and girlie and for some bizarro world reason that sums me up ookay then!

Second I am researching and reading and considering (well not so much considering since the bloody decision has been made) to write psychology papers on the media, on social construction and gender and sexuality, and als on the constructions researchers make, and possibly a reading on the televisiual landscape of gender these days.

Hmm I am insane.
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I do not normally blog about politics, I avoid it like the plague really. However, this whole burn the Qu'ran thing is pathetic. When did two  wrongs ever make a right???

For example, do we tell the burglarized to burgle the burglar? Do we tell the murder victims family, to murder a member of the murderer's family. As they say and Eye for an Eye and a Tooth for a Tooth and we would all be blind and  toothless. 

It is pathetic when so called intellegent people decide to exact revenge. They should take the christian high road (if they are , as the purport to be; christians) and do as Jesus taught and turn the other cheek.

And this is coming from a darned pagan. egads!

Also politics and religion never mix, didn't in the pilgrim fathers day hence the mass exodus, and it doesn't now. Only there is no where left to run. Start working towards a happy medium, your land has run out.
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I don't often write original fiction, though I may do a lot more in the future. Today I wrote something, that originally I had no idea where it was going, who the character was, pretty much direction-less. by the end of three hours I was buzzing. I wrote 2526 words of a story, it flowed through me, and I was for a change very conscious of where I was going and what I wanted to stay (perhaps this a feature of original fiction writing hitherto unmentioned to me.

I posted it at David Hewlett's site dGeek.com, which I moderate a portion thereof, but not the section I wrote for. The fic can be found here; http://www.dgeek.com/forum/index.php?topic=925 I even tweeted it to get more people viewing and hopefully joining the site. What I didn't expect was to get 25 'guests' viewing straight off the bat, nor did I expect my hits to go from 50 to 100 in an hour. That is a lot of eyeballs viewing it.

I am deeply proud and very much galvanised towards NaNoWriMo in November, when the actual novel and not on the side chapters can be written, but I think to keep the momentum up, I will be writing these side chapters, they may or may not be interwoven into the story post December, I am not sure, but they do help to keep my interest up. And there can be nothing wrong with that!
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I'm barely standing, but I'm fucking flying.
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 I am in twitter and someone has just pissed me off royally.

They insist that they no longer need to see the UK on their next trip, they have been there already, and they can rely on their friends to shuttle their ass around. I am sorry but that there is just fucking laziness. If you are old enough to have stayed here for 6 months previously alone, you are old enough to travel around on your fucking own. Not to mention, take a fucking interest in what is around you, you pay how much to not look at anything??? because you want to DO things, not Look at things.

You pissed me off, you would expect me to take your advice, all I said originally was to save up cause it is pricey as fuck over here, and you were all. My friends will pay may way. Immature fucking child. You deserved me calling you an arrogant, beligerant bitch. If I 'lose' followers so be it, cause I could give a fuck else over your whiney, lying ass.

Yes I call you a liar too. You lied about your boyfriend having cancer, you stated it was treatable, and that his mother was some hot shot at some NY hosptial and that she had had him transfered out of a Military hospital (How? The military don't normally do that, they certainly wouldn't pay for treatment outside of their perview either) to some fancy NY hospital for experimental treatments (if it is treatable as you originally said a week before, and he was supposed to be early stages, as you said, they do not do experimental the week after diagnosis)

You lied, and twoo weeks later you said he was dead. That made me feel for you until someone sat me up and made me think a bit. Then I realised how big of a lie you spun. Not to mention, that the night you say he is dead, and hour later you are hyping up your next big Sci-fi convention trip and who you wanna meet etc. You don't do that ever.

I didn't like talking with you. Everyday on twitter I subjugated myself to your attention whoring. You pissed me off to start with, but you are friends with mine. But the fact you said that in 6 months you had seen all the UK had to offer pissed me off. I have travelled like you wouldn't believe, and I have not seen it all. To think you have, is frankly, obscene and yes. You and your sanctimonious, the UK is small insignificant, and not worthy of attention got me. "I've been there before, and I will be there again." I sincerely hope that at some point immigration looks at your ass and goes you know what, fuck this lying Broad, access denied. Cause if that happens you can't visit for 10 years. And it won't be our loss.

OOOOOOOHHHHHH I don't like her at all.
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I write like
Chuck Palahniuk

I Write Like by Mémoires, Mac journal software. Analyze your writing!


My Career

Jul. 13th, 2010 02:05 am
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I am in such a great mood!!!

I have finally worked out where I want my career to go. I wish to become a Neuro-Psychological Rehabilitation Therapist, which means I now need to do loads of work on researching the field (Yipee, I love research). I need to take a masters in Cognitive Psychology, but I hope to focus on neurological disorders and the rehabilitation techniques and experimental methods that are being researched and applied (oooh I am excited for once in my life)

I always wanted to use my psychology degree in a practical, applied manner. it will also satisfy my need to teach as I will be 'teaching' someone the framework they can use to take them from a place of neurological deficit to the place they were before, or manage the problems the do have, to have the best possible quality of life, level of dignity and highest possible level of independence. I think this could be a very rewarding job, I love people, I love puzzles and I love enabling people to do more with their lives!!!

I am happy. It has taken me a long time to know where I wanted to go with my life. And it is a transferable job spec, I can move country, as my other half wants. People are always going to have (unfortunately) accidents and acquired brain injuries. Not to mention I have seen some of this in action, and the results, and this is something I want in on!!!

Sorry for the absolute randomness of it. I just wanted to shout this one from the rooftops!!!
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The Nature of Fandom – Or What makes a Fan a Fan

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 About 5 years ago I began work on a stargate fan fiction community, it flopped at the time. The person I was making it for required it to serve too many masters, and subsequently it failed to get a decent audience. The odd thing was that I never deleted it. It has sat and languished on the LIve Journal servers for all that time and suddenly traffic and people interested in it have made themselves known. It may never have a huge and steady stream of traffic, the show having been cancelled. But it is lovely to be working with a dedicated group of women, who are invested in the pairing of which I started my fan fiction writing.

I hope this maintains a stream of people interested in it, as I love my community!
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OK I walked into this show hating it. I am going to be very honest now, very, very honest. I haven't been a fan of the new show at all. However, I have watched every episode of the series... which seems odd, until you realise you can't hate what you don't know. That said, I am looking forward to the second half of the first season.

Why?

This is odd, I actually began liking a couple of characters, and Identified with some of the traits they hold. The first would be Lt. Scott's Character, He seems to be a little like me. On the outside I seem to let everyone in, I seem to tell everyone, everything. I don't. I keep in the things that would leave me feeling vulnerable and this leaves you with an internal monologue that at best can prevent you taking actions that might be the best thing ever, and at worst can cripple and shred you to pieces (trust me, I have done just that. I really am my own worst enemy at times) Lt. Scott is an internalist, and I can identify with that.

The other character is that of Chloe. Her father dies in the three part opener and she carries on, develops relationships and that right there is exactly why I like her, again she reminds me of me. I too have lost my father, and my mother too boot. The Chloe Character hasn't lost her mother, but since she is on the other side of a UNIVERSE, for all intents and purposes, she may as well have. The scene where she watches her father die, was horrific and intense, not to mention poignant. And that there is the third reason why I am getting behind it for season 1.5 ... I can relate, the writers are doing their jobs.

My biggest issue has been that it wasn't humorous, and Creator/writer Brad Wright has simply stated that it won't have the type of snark and zing that  the predecessors have entertained. While in my heart I feel disappointment, and saddened by this development, purely because that is something the franchise was built upon, and in essence it was its very foundations - my mind however rings out with the solidity of why would they be cracking jokes and zingers? There is little to no hope in getting home, everything they have ever known is lost to them - and they have to be in close quarters with people they wouldn't have necessarily have chosen to pass time of day with let alone live, work and play with. Wouldn't it be completely unbelievable, and totally OOC for any show to pull of the we're a family and we laugh about even the most tragic of things???

In sum total the criticisms against it have been that it was too like Battlestar Galactica, another science fiction show that I have taken firmly to my heart. There have been similarities, especially in short term story ideas - however, Battlestar had an end goal - SGU doesn't appear to have divulged that to us, yet. If I did have to make any kind of comparison it would be to Star Trek Voyager. To me it is an updated, more realistic, drama and character based Voyager, and a lot more mature. Not just in terms of the fact sex is there (Its about time!) but in terms of the level of responsibility that the characters assume and are seen assuming.

This opinion will probably be seen as flying in the face of previous statements. I have watched the first half season, and I haven't been thrilled with it, future developments shown have deeply intrigued me, characters on my second round of watching (without the knee jerk of OMG this isn't SG-1/Atlantis) has shown me a group of young actors as well as those veterans who seem to be holding their own, and who in retrospect can make me wonder about them.

I personally don't like Eli, I responded so well to McKay's geek because he was like me. He had his absolute STFU moments and he had the Uber cool moments and he seemed as though he was one of my friends. Eli, is too much a stereotype (I have never been a gamer or convention goer, so perhaps I have never seen this behaviour) for me to relate to him. And Carlyle's character is a manipulative SOB, and I am not responding too well to it. The others I feel ambivalent towards, this could be rectified in the future by good writing and I hope it will be.

So What Am I Saying Here?

That quite possibly, if the writers tackle 1.5 well, I may end up loving it. That said I also have to approach it differently, this is a completely different animal to SG-1/Atlantis, of which I adored. I also have to bear in mind first seasons of any show generally have a n element of suckitude, this is while the actors and writers are developing the characters around each other, the crew are getting used to what works with the space they have created, and the directors are knowing the whole lot for the most part.


So What I AM Saying, is that I am gonna give it another shot, from a different perspective and bare in mind the aforementioned points.
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1. Well, this day was a total waste of makeup.

2. Well, aren't we just a ray of fucking sunshine?

3. Make yourself at home! Clean my kitchen.

4. Not the brightest crayon in the box now, are we?

5. A hard-on doesn't count as personal growth.

6. Don't bother me. I'm living happily ever after.

7. Do I look like a fucking people person?

8. This isn't an office. It's Hell with fluorescent lighting.

9. I started out with nothing & still have most of it left.

10. I pretend to work. They pretend to pay me.

11. I've found Jesus. He was behind the sofa the whole time.

12. You! Off my planet !

13. Therapy is expensive, poppin' bubble wrap is cheap! You choose.

14. Practice random acts of intelligence & senseless acts of self-control.

15. I like cats too. Let's exchange recipes.

16. If I want to hear the pitter-patter of little feet, I'll put shoes on my cat.

17. The Bible was written by the same people who said the Earth was flat.

18. Did the aliens forget to remove your anal probe?

19. I wish for a world of peace, harmony, & nakedness.

20. Errors have been made. Others will be blamed.

21. Let me show you how the guards used to do it.

22. And your crybaby whiny-assed opinion would be...?

23. I'm not crazy, I've just been in a very bad mood for 30 years.

24. See no evil, hear no evil and date no evil.

25. Allow me to introduce my selves.

26. Sarcasm is just one more service we offer.

27. Whisper my favorite words: "I'll buy it for you."

28. Better living through denial.

29. Whatever kind of look you were going for, you missed.

30. Suburbia: where they tear out the trees & then name streets after them.

31. Do they ever shut up on your planet?

32. I'm just working here till a good fast-food job opens up.

33. Are those your eyeballs? I found them in my cleavage.

34. I'm not your type. I'm not inflatable.

35. I'm trying to imagine you with a personality.

36. A cubicle is just a padded cell without a door.

37. Stress is when you wake up screaming & you realize you haven't fallen asleep yet.

38. Here I am! Now what are your other two wishes?

39. Back off! You're standing in my aura.

40. I can't remember if I'm the good twin or the evil one.

41. Don't worry. I forgot your name, too!

42. One of us is thinking about sex... OK, it's me.

43. How many times do I have to flush before you go away?

44. I have a computer, a vibrator, & pizza delivery. Why should I leave the house?

45. I just want revenge. Is that so wrong?

46. It's sick the way you people keep having sex without me.

47. I work 40 hours a week to be this poor.

48. You say I'm a bitch like it's a bad thing.

49. Can I trade this job for what's behind door #1?

50. Okay, okay, I take it back! UnFuck you!

51. Macho Law prohibits me from admitting I'm wrong.

52. Nice perfume. Must you marinate in it?

53. Not all men are annoying. Some are dead.

54. Too many freaks, not enough circuses.

55. Just smile and say "Yes, Mistress."

56. Chaos, panic, & disorder -- my work here is done.

57. Mommy, I wanna grow up to be a neurotic bitch just like you.

58. A woman's favorite position is CEO.

59. Ambivalent? Well, yes and no.

60. You look like shit. Is that the style now?

61. This is a mean, fucking cruel world & I want my nappy & medication right now!

62. Everyone thinks I'm psychotic, except for my friends deep inside the earth.

63. Earth is full. Go home.

64. Is it time for your medication or mine?

65. Aw, did I step on your poor little bitty ego?

66. Did I mention the kick in the groin you'll be receiving if you touch me?

67. I plead contemporary insanity.

68. And which dwarf are you?

69. I refuse to star in your psychodrama.

70. I thought I wanted a career, turns out I just wanted pay checks.

71. How do I set a laser printer to stun?

72. It ain't the size, it's... no, it's the size.

73. I'm not tense, just terribly, terribly alert.

74. I majored in liberal arts. Will that be for here or to go?

75. Gene Police!!! Get out of the pool!!

76. When I want your opinion, I'll give it to you.

77. Come on, theres 6 billion ppl in the world. No ones gonna miss one.

78. Who pissed in your bitch flakes?
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1. Grab the nearest book.
2. Open the book to page 123.
3. Find the fifth sentence.
4. Post the text of the next 4 sentences on your LJ along with these instructions.
5. Don't you dare dig for that "cool" or "intellectual" book in your closet! I know you were thinking about it! Just pick up whatever is closest.
6. Tag five people: Madkingludwig, shansgrl, smhstar82, seachanter, shadowfigment

(Considering these people are on tight schedules as is, not sure anyone is going to do the meme.)



"Halting so abruptly that Kirk nearly ran into him, Pike got right in the younger mans face. Speaking through clenched teeth and fighting to restrain himself , the Captain proceeded to explain his reasoning.

" ' If you can look past your initial animal response, cadet, and for a moment think about conditions outside your immediate surroundings, you'll recognize that without transport ability, not only can we not leave this ship, we cannot assist Vulcan or anyone in its surface. Additionally with communications blocked we cannot notify Starfleet of what's happening here, either to request reinforcements, seek information or simply warn the res of the Federation.' " ~ Star Trek (New Movie) - Alan Dean Foster, Based on the screenplay Written by - Roberto Orci and Alex Kurtzman

Yes that is FOUR sentences. Star Trek Authors have such command of grammar, that what is usally split into baby sentances, becomes complex and compound sentances. Yay!
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I have been dealing with issues I haven't been able to describe. 

Tonight I was helping a friend with a journal article for a writing journal, she has been writing for and looked at one of the issues and saw a poem about mental health and it sparked something.

I ended up writing 3 poems about the things that in normal conversant language I have had the most difficulty with expressing.

I dunno if they are very good in a technical sense, but they express what they are intended, so they are successful to me.

Enjoy!

About depression

About depression )

About losing My Mum and what it means/meant

Mum )

About my relationship with my dad - who lived with me my entire life (I am lucky and I know that.)

Daddy )
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In memory of family and friends who have lost the battle with cancer; and in support of the ones who continue to conquer it! Post this on your LJ if you know someone who has or had cancer. 93% won't copy and paste this. Will you?
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Bold statements that are true. Italicize statements that are partly true. Give yourself 1 point for each bolded statement and half a point for each italicized one.

Appearance
I hate the way I look.
I cannot look in the mirror without thinking that I am ugly.
I think I am the ugliest of all my friends.
I don't think the opposite sex will ever be attracted to me.
If I had the money, I would get plastic surgery.
I would change at least 5 things about myself.
My friends/partner/family constantly tell me I'm beautiful, but I don't believe them.

I will not leave the house without make-up on.
Total: 6

Weight
I hate my body.
I wish I was thinner.
I'd rather be stick thin than a little chubby.
I am jealous of all the models I see in magazines.
I either have or do make myself throw up regularly.
I starve myself on a regular basis.
I track how many calories I eat, and get mad at myself when I go over the limit.
I have an eating disorder or am developing one.
Total: 2

Abilities
I am not good at anything.
I have no special talents or skills.
I don't apply for jobs because I know I will never get hired.
I suck(ed) at school and don't (didn't) bother trying.
I think I'm stupid.
My friends are all good at something, but I'm not.
I'd rather die than perform anything in front of a crowd.
I can't name anything good about myself.
I don't believe in myself.
Total: 4

Feelings
I am currently depressed.
I feel lonely and/or sad all the time.
I feel like nobody cares or understands me.
My crush doesn't even notice me.
I don't know why I am living.
I think about suicide seriously.
I get embarrassed easily.
I haven't been happy in long time.
Total: 2

Habits
I often lie in bed for hours, not being able to sleep.
I worry about things constantly.
I drink/do drugs to make myself feel better about my life.
I often hurt myself purposely.
I cry 4 or more times a week.
I can relate to every sad song out there.
I always have to do something to get my mind off things.
Total: 3

Total: 17

OVERALL TOTAL:
0 - 10: Your self esteem is great! - bullshit :)
11 - 20: Your self esteem is okay.
21 - 30: Your self esteem could use some work.
31 - 40: Your self esteem is really low. Seek help from family/friends if you feel down all the time.
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Brandy,

You are so sweet you are watching me eat plain creamed rice, and the sweetest thing is you have decided you like it as much as mommy

You have siddled up to me, and wiht you big bush baby eyes pleaded your case. You have suckered me it, by placing a gentle paw on my knee and looking into my eyes.

If you could talk, you would have tonight. You are too cute for me.


Love you sucker for a mother

*Title comes from a jimgle my late mother (Brandy's first owner) used to sing it went a little like this;

Handy Brandy,
The Strong little gentle cat.
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I have discovered a group of women who I agree with about parenting....

They are the childfree community.

Do not get me wrong here. I do want kids, but their tke on parents and parenting has got my seal of approval.

I have seen some truely hellacious parenting in my time. and their take on the parenting side of things is absolutely with my own. I believe in disciplining. I believe in time outs and not inflicting massive doses of bad behaviour on the general public (I can understand certain situations, I can understand apologising for certain things that are beyond any parents control.)

What I don't get is not taking a five year old temper tantrum out of the shop giving him a few sharp words and telling him his BS just cost him x or y or z. My parents did this. I expect most parents do. But there is this rarified breed of parent that are asinine and stupid. They allow the behaviour, or reward the behaviour in order to get it to cease, which doesn't help them cause the kid learns exactly what to do to get his desired result and learns to manipulate and control through shitty behaviour.

Maybe I am wrong because I haven't got kids. But I have seen parents either squish their childs self esteenm and wonder why they hate their parent, or find that they behave like little shits to get somethign and become again little shits. What the fuck happened to discipline and knowing that there are boundaries. And what happens when those kids grow up and finds that there are societal boundaries too. Something that has been a hitherto unmentioned concept. good luck for the rest of society when that ticking time bomb erupts.

I can understand why some women want to be childfree, and I applaud them for their descision. I'm not sure if I could decide to be childfree. There is a part of me that wants children. But there may be a time when it turns out that I can't. Its at that time that there is a decision. Do I try everything known to man, including surrogacy and adoption, or do I give up and take pleasure in those around me? Its a huge thing I supose.

The one thing I do know I want to do, is to insert disciplin in my child's - should I have one - life. And I am going to sympathise with my childfree sisters when the idiot version of parents comes near me. Because I bloody well wanna smack the parent when they are acquiescing or ignoring bad behaviour.

And before anyone asks. No I am not thinking of any parents I actually know. I am thinking however of the asshole chavs of Sutton and croydon, who have zero control over their kids, make no apologies when their kids dash infront of you and do not chastise the kid either I watch where I go most of the time. But getting tripped up pisses me off I have had it 4 times today alone. Not to mention the parents who make walking in a restaurant a fucking obstacle course. None of them were conscientious enough to tuck the puchschair out of the way, but did leave it in the middle of the gangway, and looked at anyone saying excuse me can you move this so I can by as though you had asking them to open a vein and give them all teir money.

I guess this weekend just pissed me off, and the behaviour of the chavtastic fuckwads in my area have just really gotten to me.

Astounded.

Oct. 23rd, 2009 06:26 pm
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I have just received 3 emails from my agency. None of them anything to do with me. None of them of any interst to me ALL holding 6 other people personal information (CV and job apps). This they have brokent the Data Protection Act.

Needless to say I have deleted them, but one of them was intereting due to the fact I work with and dislike the person.

Of course I had a call from them. And my phone was at hom, I haven't called back. They can call me again.
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Before you make any kind of determination on what I am saying read through to the end.

So many bad things happen in the world. So many horrid things happen and the best we can do is blame the victim.

A person is raped (male or female)? Blame the victime for being in the area, dressing the wrong way, being the wrong gender, asking for it etc.

A mother loses her baby to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome? Blame the mother, she must have been a terrible mother, must have left the baby alone, gave it the wrong thing to eat left in an area with chemicals to inhale, she deserved it for whatever the reason.

A young man dies unexpectedly? He must have been drinking, or taking drugs or behaving badly, doing something seedy.

A gay man is murdered? He deserved it for being gay, he brought it on himself, he must have been doing something wrong, his sexuality was to blame somwhere along the lines.

A young kid is shot? He must have been doing something illegal, was probably black, was probably in a gang, somewhere along the lines he deserved it.

These are situations I have read for so long in the 'newspapers' and occassionally they are right in some of the facts surrounding their headlines 9/10 times they are wrong in their assertions and opinions.

Someone is raped for example - The perpertraitor is at fault and along the lines society for the sexulisation, but at the end its the perp. not the victim.

A mother loses her child - genetics, uncontrollable environmental factors, poor healthcare provision (the postcode lottery, or health insurance is just that bad) but most of the time a mother is never to blame. Fate is just that kind of cruel bitch that children do die and we seek someone to blame for the senselessness of life.

The Gay guy who is murdered? Why is it him to blame for the way he is made, what makes his love any different than our just based on gender? why is the blame not on the perp who committed the act, why is it always said that being a homosexual is seedy? They do exactly the same things we do in and out of the bed room... get over it.

A young man dies unexpectedly? Because of the senselessness of life we seek to blame someone to make a rationalisation of the unexpected cruelty of life. And the victim is blamed ... AGAIN.

The young kid is shot? Sometimes they are wrapped up in seedy underworld of criminality, but again there is a larger reason to blame, society disenfranchising children in certain areas of itself. Hell make your own reason, but it isn't always the victims fault.

Yes I am angry. I see too much bllame the victim nad not enough critical thinking into the situation surrounding the event. What led up to events that occur, why do things have tomake sense? This is insanity. And we keep on doing it and instead of treating society for the mass mental disorder it has, we ignore it and hope that one day, someday soon and in the future will take care of it. Why can we not recognise that today we have to act, that today we have to start treating our mass mental disorder, start respecting the differences and the injustices the unfairness and the random senselessness without blaming the person it happens to.

WE NEED TO STOP LOOKING AT THE SURFACE AND BEGIN LOOKING AT THE DEEPER PICTURE, ONLY THEN CAN WE ACTUALLY SAY WE ARE LIVING. AND ONLY THEN CAN WE SAY WE ARE LIVING OUR FUTURE.

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